Growing Pains
When we are trying to shape something new and different for ourselves, one of the greatest challenges we face is giving ourselves enough space to hold the new energy long enough, explore the new direction far enough, for it to begin to take shape, to gather substance, and become real, our new reality, without us beginning to feel like we need to reshape it into something more familiar. Those nearest and dearest to us are more likely to make us feel a strong pull to do that, to not change too much from who we were before, even if we are the ones creating that pull, that desire to keep things as they were and not risk losing friendships. It is perfectly healthy to use care when you are nurturing such tender new growth, and to choose carefully when, how, and with whom you share it. Your heart knows the way forward, and your gut knows how to keep you on the path. Trust them both, and trust yourself completely. You are going home, and you are determined. Let nothing get in your way! Love yourself dearly, love what you are becoming, and treasure everything.
Terry Tischmak, C 9/2024. All Rights Reserved
